Boyfriend of 27-year-old woman given 'a week to live after shock diagnosis seeks to grant final wish

Aidan Solan lovingly describes his late girlfriend Alex Halley as a 'caricature of a good person', so unfailingly caring that upon receiving her cervical cancer diagnosis, she immediately thought about a friend whose mother had recently died of cancer - as she didn't want to upset them with the news.

The couple, from London, received a call from the doctors while celebrating at a friend's wedding in Italy in August this year. The couple had been planning to end their trip early anyway as Alex was feeling poorly, but hoped to return at a later date.

She had been suffering from stomach problems for a while - which they'd assumed was a side effect of coming off the pill, or possibly a cyst that could be treated within a few months.

In Aidan's words, 'your mind always goes to the most positive potential outcome' but just eight weeks after she was diagnosed, Alex was dead, at the age of just 27.

Immediately after the call, Alex burst into tears, while Aidan says the reality didn’t hit him until two days later.

Speaking to the Mirror , Aidan, 29, said: "I don't know whether it was a panic attack or what, but I was just hysterically, hysterically crying. I couldn't stop.

“[It was] just the realisation of what was happening [and it] setting in."

For Aidan, the next couple of months were a 'bit of a blur', with Alex going in and out of the hospital, before she was checked in as an impatient five weeks before she died.

During this time, he was struck by Alex's strength and recalls fondly how the hospital staff clearly loved her so much.

Alex was working in the NHS as an occupational therapist in a school for children with physical disabilities and additional sensory needs, meaning she understood everything was happening much better than Aidan did.

The second month was particularly hard, with doctors trying various treatments to no avail. Through it all, Alex remained remarkably strong, 'taking it on the chin' right up until they were told she most likely had just one week left to live.

Aidan said: "We got told on Thursday that it was terminal, and I said my proper last goodbyes then.

‘I sat in the room with her, and played the song that we always joked would be our first dance at our wedding."

That same day, Aidan and Alex spoke of the project that had long been her dream - an accessible playground where children with disabilities could play with their friends and siblings, and he promised he'd make this a reality - with a fundraiser started here.

The following Saturday morning, Aidan tested positive for coronavirus meaning he couldn't return to the hospital to see Alex, only able to contact each other by phone.

Aidan said: "I was at home isolating, and I got a call from her. She wasn't really making that much sense.

“She said a few things that were probably just the morphine talking, and she told me 'I miss you', which was really nice. I texted her mum and said, 'Alex has come to, do you want to go and check on her?'

"Alex's mum said, 'She's not been conversational since pretty much Saturday'. The fact that she managed to get a phone, type my number in, and call me, I thought that was lovely."

A couple of days after the unexpected phone call, Alex passed away. Looking back at the time, Aidan finds it unbelievable that just two months before, they'd been in Italy on holiday, where she’d been 'the life and soul of the party'.

One of Aidan's favourite memories of Alex is how she behaved with his young godson, who sadly lost his father back in 2020.

Her kind nature 'would shine through;, and she would 'go above and beyond' to be there for them, even during the early months of their relationship. Caring for others was Alex's vocation, and she loved the children she worked with.

Aidan continued: "You will genuinely never meet anybody who enjoys their work as much.

“She'd come home every night with a big beaming smile on her face, showing me pictures of pyjama day with the kids, or something funny that one of the kids had said.

“She'd found her calling as an occupational therapist, and working with these kids particularly."

Alex had long dreamed of building an accessible playground for children with disabilities ( Image: Aidan Solan)

Alex's job as an occupational therapist was her vocation ( Image: Aidan Solan)

The couple learned the news while holidaying in Italy ( Image: Aidan Solan)

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