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HOT DATE, COLD SHOULDER I had hot sex with a guy on our first date — but now he’s ignoring my messag

DEAR DEIDRE: I HAD sex with a guy I met a couple of weeks ago and we agreed to be friends with benefits. But now he’s not opening my messages.

I am 22 and he’s 24. We had a great first date so I offered to pick him up from work the next day but he didn’t open the message.

I cannot understand why he's no longer interested in me

I contacted him on Snapchat a few days later. He replied and we chatted.

He seemed really keen and we agreed it would be FWB for the time being.

I sent him a really nice picture of myself but he has not opened that either. I suggested another day and time to meet and he said he would let me know.

He has not got back and I cannot understand why he is no longer interested. It is very disappointing. What should do?

DEIDRE SAYS: Deciding to have sex on the first date with a guy you hardly know is risky – and often leads to them not treating you considerately.

Being friends with benefits usually leads to hurt feelings.

Get to know the next guy well before you have sex. My e-leaflet How To Stay Safe Online explains.

Culled from The Sun

My view: He's not interested in a relationship, you gave him what he wanted, 'sex', and that's the end so move on, don't appear cheap next time.

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