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I caught my mum having sex with my boyfriend — but I’m too shocked to confront them

DEAR DEIDRE: I CAUGHT my mum and my boyfriend in bed. They were all over each other but I was too shocked to say anything.

I thought I had a good connection with my boyfriend. We got together six months ago. I am 23 and I quickly fell in love with him and was really happy. He is 27.

When I woke up in the middle of the night alone, I caught my boyfriend having sex with my mum

Four months ago, I noticed my mum had changed. She had been going to a slimming club and lost a lot of weight. She started wearing shorter skirts and low-cut tops.

She wore her hair differently and had on more make-up. She was a new woman.

It was my dad’s 50th birthday party recently at a local hotel. My mum is 45 and she looked great that evening. My boyfriend came too and we had a brilliant time.

My dad had a lot to drink and when we got home, my mum and I put him to bed in the spare room because she said she couldn’t stand his snoring all night.

I'm too scared to confront my boyfriend or mother have done even though it crushed me

We had a few more drinks, chatted for a while then all went to bed. I woke up in the middle of the night and realised my boyfriend was not in bed with me. I thought he must have gone downstairs to get a drink of water and I went to find him.

I heard noises coming from my mum’s bedroom and opened the door a tiny bit. My mum and my boyfriend were in bed together and it was obvious what they were doing. I felt faint and couldn’t say anything. I just went back to my own bed.

He had left his phone by the bed and I decided to see what else he was doing. The texts between him and my mum proved they had been hooking up for weeks.

I told my older sister next day and she said she had noticed they were flirty together but thought it was just our mum enjoying her new image.

When I saw texts on his phone, my mum and boyfriend had been hooking up for weeks

I can’t believe they have done this to me. I am crushed, for myself and for my father. He will be heartbroken when he finds out.

I have bottled this up all over Christmas. Everyone kept asking me what was wrong but I don’t know how to bring it up.

DEIDRE SAYS: Maybe your dad doesn’t have to find out, as long as your mum stops cheating on him now.

Tell your mum you know what is going on and you will tell your father if it doesn’t stop immediately.

Source: The Sun

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