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Passionate fling with charming boss has unleashed my wild side and now I want him for keeps

Dear Deidre

MY boss has brought out a side of me I never knew existed since we started having passionate sex.

We do it anywhere we can, including in the office when everyone else has gone home.

I've started a hot passionate affair with my boss

I am 20.

I have only ever had one previous boyfriend and that was a boy at school when I was just coming up to 16.

I started my present job when a friend told me there was a vacancy because someone was leaving.

I jumped at the chance as I was bored at my last place of work.

I am certainly not bored at this one.

Right away my new boss was really charming and friendly.

I've started to catch feelings for my charming and sexy boss

Looking back I suppose you could say he was all over me. He’s 32.

It did not occur to me at the time that he was trying to get off with me.

I just thought he was a really nice man and that I was lucky to be working for such a lovely guy.

Our affair began when he asked me stay late to clear a backlog of queries.

After an hour or so he brought out a bottle of wine “to help us along”.

When we finished the job he gave me a kiss to celebrate, but then it turned into something more.

After he took leave to look after his partner and newborn child, our affair started all over again

We had sex on his office desk.

I did not realise that he had a girlfriend who was pregnant at the time.

He told me this after one particularly long and passionate session at a hotel nearby — we had decided the office was too uncomfortable and so started goting to a hotel whenever we got the chance.

I was shocked and thought that was the end of us.

He took some time off to be at home with his partner and new baby after she was born but the moment he got me alone afterwards he said how much he had missed me and our affair is as hot as ever.

I know he won’t leave his girlfriend but I think I am getting feelings for him.

I have never told him though.

Does he really care for me or is he just using me?

DEIDRE SAYS: He is using you – and what about his poor girlfriend, the mother of his baby?

He is almost certainly going to hurt her badly.

Do not let him hurt you too.

He would not hesitate to cheat on you should the opportunity arise.

He is offering you nothing but sex without love and without a future.

Tell him it is over before your feelings for him become unbearably strong.

Leave the office on time, avoid getting in early.

Meanwhile make sure you get out, see your friends and meet new people.

These will take your mind off this cheating rat you work for and give you the best chance of finding a proper boyfriend who will value you.

Source: The Sun

My opinion: He is a cheating rat, and only using you for sex because he knows he can get it anytime from you

He Doesn't Love You, He Just Wants To Control You for his own pleasure.