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Shower sex with a pal was the best of my life — I want more but she says no as I’m engaged

Dear Deidre

I ASKED a girl mate for sex and we had a crazy afternoon in the shower. I want to do it again but she says no way.

It is complicated because I am already engaged to another girl.

Sex in the shower was better than I ever imagined

My fiancée is beautiful but she wants to wait until after we are married to have sex.

She says it is not all that important and will not even talk about the sexy things I want to do.

I am 24, she is 21 and we’re on opposite sides of the world as I was sent to work at my Australian office for six months.

The time difference means it is not easy to phone. We text a lot but she always falls asleep when I want to start sexting her.

I respect her choice to stay a virgin until we marry next year but I would love her to do something to keep me excited.

I recently moved into a new flat-share with another guy. He has a girlfriend who lives in the flat below us with her mate.

They are both 25. The girls spend a lot of time in our flat and I became very jealous when I saw my flatmate cosying up with his girlfriend.

The girls were with us last Saturday afternoon and we all had a few drinks.

Then my mate and his girl disappeared into his bedroom.

I was sitting next to the other girl and decided to try my luck.

I kissed her and she responded.

I'd never done anything so wild before

We talked about sexy things we could do and I was really turned on.

We had sex in my bed and then an even more amazing time in the shower afterwards.

It was the first time I had done something so wild and it was better than I had ever imagined it could be.

She knows I am engaged and she now says that it was just an afternoon of madness and will not happen again.

I really want it to but she totally refuses.

I love my fiancée but I am at breaking point with frustration now.