I am having an affair with a man 20 years older than me and I don’t want to end it but I feel bad fo
I TRIED to end my long-term affair but had sex with my lover instead.
I’m married with two little sons and I’m back to square one.
I met my lover at a trade show and we have the best sex I've ever had
My husband is a fabulous dad and we have been together for eight years. I’m 29 and he is 30.
He has no idea I’ve been having an on-off affair throughout our married life.
I only took time out from my lover when each of my children was born.
My lover is 20 years older than me and a real alpha male. He runs his own business and knows how to live.
I met him at a trade show not too long after getting engaged. He came to my stand and asked about products and prices and all kinds of things.
As I was just standing in for a colleague, I wasn’t too sure of myself but he was very pleasant and said he was sorry for taking so much of my time.
Then he invited me out for a drink to say thanks.
He was so gorgeous I couldn’t say no and we ended having sex in his hotel bed. Afterwards, I went home and got on with my life. He would call me up now and again and I would make up excuses to my fiance, then have a boozy night out followed by fabulous sex in a four-star hotel.
I got married the following year but our secret affair carried on. He’s now married himself but says nothing has changed.
I love him so much. I do love my husband but it’s more like the love for a friend.
I feel bad for my husband but I can let go of my lover
I decided I just had to end the affair but my lover persuaded me not to and the sex that night was better than ever. His motto is “live for the day” and so I did a U-turn and decided: “Why not?”
I don’t know what to do. I keep changing my mind. I know what I’m doing is wrong but it makes my life edgy and fun.
You may be having the time of your life but what about your husband?
I feel really sorry for him. Are you sure that he has no idea?
Even if he is oblivious to your affair, the fact is that you’re not giving 100 per cent to your marriage.
You are pushing your husband into the friendzone by pouring all your sexual energy in your lover’s direction.
And your lover doesn’t even offer you commitment.
He’s married someone else and you risk ending up without either man.
Perhaps your husband is choosing to turn a blind eye for now but he won’t be the relaxed, happy dad that your children deserve for long.
Stop seeing your lover and put more into your marriage.
Take some time out if you can, just you and your husband, and focus your attention on him.
Source: The Sun
My opinion: The woman seems to be enjoying hard sex and fun with her lover as she doesn't get it from her boring husband.